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Heartbreak Nympho’s Gender Carnival!

Mia — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:33:15 +0000

Wilhelmina Wang is having a contest over at Hearbreak Nymphomania, wherein she asks readers to answer the intriguing question, “What does your gender mean to YOU?”

That’s interesting to me, because I never really think about “my gender” per se… I think about society’s gender roles all the time, because I butt up against them on a regular basis, but I never frame it as “my gender”, always as “society’s gender roles.”

I was blessed with a hippie mom who never chastised me for wearing “boy’s” clothes. In fact, she bought me boys jeans when I was little, because they had reinforcement patches in the knees. Apparently I spent enough time crawling around on the ground pretending I was a horse to wear out girls pants far too fast for the family budget.

So, I was lucky to be raised by a woman who put no stock in, “how girls are supposed to be,” and all stock in, “be who you are.” I do sometimes wonder if I’d been raised in a more “traditional” family, if I would have more gender issues than I do. As it is, my only gender issues are with society telling me how I should be, instead of accepting me for how I am.

For the record, I usually identify as a heterosexual woman. I have no disputes with my biologically female sex/gender. I am entirely more inclined to be involved with a man than a woman. I identify as bisexual when I’m involved in a conversation with people a) who are totally against homosexuality, and b) who are interested in discussing what you find attractive more than who you get into relationships with.

What does that all mean for what I think of my own gender? Nothing. I don’t really ever think of my “gender” as an important issue. I am who I am, and that is that. If you have a problem with me being assertive, not wearing a skirt, or knowing my way around the underside of my car’s hood better than a random man on the street? You are not someone whose opinion I give a shit about.

Gender, in my opinion, should not be an issue. That doesn’t mean gender isn’t an issue, and a damned important one for a lot of people, but it shouldn’t be. Gender shouldn’t be any more of an issue than who somebody loves… and that is apparently a huge issue for a lot of (sad, insecure) folks.

The rules for entering Wilhelmina’s contest follow the jump. :-)

Lately, I’ve been thinking about my own gender more, and while appear mostly feminine, I often wish that I could wake up and just pick whatever gender I wanted to be that day, and be it. Soon I’m going to be doing a series of posts/HNTs exploring my own gender(fucking), and I’m really looking forward to reading about other people’s takes on gender. I thought combining a shout out for feedback with a contest would be cool.

Prizes:
I’m not giving away as much as I was for my last contest, but the prizes are still pretty sweet:

A Femblossom Heat from Emotional Bliss!
Not only does this vibrator vibrate, it heats up, matching the speed and frequency of the vibrations. After you use it, the Femblossom also secretes an antibacterial agent which means you can clean it with a quick wipe. (Specs: variable speeds + frequency, curved to fit the body, lats from 90-240 minutes, heats up + self-cleaning.)
A Tantus Ryder!
(Specs: silicone, 4.1″ length and 1.5″ diameter.)
A Lelo Bo from Tabu Toys!
(Specs: silicone, rechargable battery, lasts for up to 2 hours.)

How to Enter:
To enter, you need to do two things:

Leave a comment on Wilhelmina’s original post in response to the question: What does your gender mean to you?
Spread the word about the contest! Either reblog or retweet. Or both, if you wish. If you’re reblogging, exact text would be best (don’t hotlink to the images, though), and you can add your own words to it. Link to the blog post in a comment. You can only do this a minimum of once. If you’re retweeting, do so at least once and a maximum of ten times, and use the following text: RT @wilhelminawang What does your gender mean to you? Answer and win some sex toys! http://bit.ly/LOBoZ
(Optional) Subscribe to my RSS feed and let me know in your comment that you have :)

Each comment, reblog and retweet will earn you one “entry” into the contest, and after all the entries are in I’ll use a randomizer to select the winner :) Yep, only one winner this time.

Deadline to enter: November 21st, midnight, EST.

The Fine Print:

- Tabu Toys is only willing to ship within the continental US. If you’re not in the continental US, you can still enter, but if you win I will request that you cover shipping costs because otherwise I’ll have to pay for it out of my own pocket. You can pay for the costs via PayPal.

Time for more skin…

Mia — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 23:36:14 +0000

Yes indeed, it’s that time of the week again! Here’s a little HNT action:

Happy Thursday, everyone! ;-)

Bad Bad Girl’s Grand Fucking Prize Contest

Mia — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 07:25:12 +0000

If you’re the slightest bit interested in the kinkier side of sex, THIS is a contest you MUST enter! Seriously. Bad Bad Girl has teamed up with the master kinksters at Extreme Restraints to offer quite possibly the BEST potential prize package the sexblogging world has ever seen.

Why do I say “potential” prize package? Well, because the collection of toys included depends entirely on the number of entries… and to enter, all you have to do is:

Create an account at Extreme Restraints and set up your own wish list.
Write a blog entry on your own site telling everyone about the contest, and the wish list you made (You can see mine right here!).
Then run on over to Bad Bad Girl’s site, and leave her a comment telling her about your blog post!

Now, how easy is THAT?! And if that wasn’t reason enough to enter the contest, here’s the list of potential prizes up for grabs:

Here’s what you can win as the entries increase:

Sign-ups	Item	Retail
1	Electrogasm	$45.00
4	Ratan Cane	$11.50
5	Trinity Silicone Butt Plug Kit	$38.00
7	Trinity Pink Waterproof Rabbit	$18.95
9	Orgasmic Vibrating Cock Ring	$8.00
10	Luv Balls	$26.00
12	The Sunset Plug	$17.99
15	Strict Leather Flogger	$165.00
17	Clit Enhance Pump Kit	$114.00
18	Vibrating Silver Bullet	$8.50
20	Vibrating Remote Control 7 speed egg	$47.95
23	Leather Blindfold with Velcro Closure	$16.50
25	Strict Leather Locking Thigh Cuffs	$76.00
30	Trinity 7 Speed Vibrating Silicon Butt Plug	$28.95
35	Delux Digital Power Box	$130.00
38	Trinity Pocket Rocket Massager	$14.00
40	Trinity Heart Throb Glass Dildo	$28.00
43	The Love Pacifier	$14.99
45	Strict Leather 4 Foot Leash	$18.00
47	Vibrating Lipstick	$26.00
50	Hitachi Magic Wand	$49.95
55	Ball Gag Training System	$15.00
58	Trinity Rosebud G Vibrator	$22.50
60	Strict Leather Punishment Strap	$37.50
62	Bondage Tape	$7.95
65	Strict Leather Studded Paddle	$48.00
69	Clit Clamp with Bell	$10.00
70	Strict Leather Low Rise Leather Collar	$48.00
75	The Love Seat	$99.95
77	Premium Bondage Rope Nylon 10ft	$12.00
78	Wartenburg Wheel	$9.50
80	The Anal Hook	$78.95
85	Tower of Pain	$88.00
90	Strict Leather Forced Orgasm Belt	$78.00
95	The Curvy Steel Dildo	$95.00
100	The Power Box Fucking Machine	$449.00

Last I heard, there were only 20 entries besides mine! This is simply NOT good enough, people… so get your asses over to Extreme Restraints to set up your very OWN wishlist, and then pop into Bad Bad Girl’s excellent blog, and let her know you want a shot at the Grand Fucking Prize!

HNT comes to Cleveros!

Mia — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 20:36:43 +0000

Yeah, an all-words-all-the-time adult site does get a little boring, no? So, I’m jumping on the bandwagon of a killer sex/photo blogger meme: Half-Nekkid Thursdays! Here you go:

Please Bear With Us…

Mia — Sat, 01 Aug 2009 01:26:48 +0000

Alrighty, the whole collaborative basis to this supposedly erotic-fiction-oriented site obviously got off the ground like a rock on a kite string. Apparently it’s time to switch focus … I have two kind souls assisting in toy reviews (not hard to find volunteers for THAT), but the fiction thing is just not happening. HOWEVER, there is still a niche in my brain that poor, neglected Cleveros can fit into! Hooray!

See, my other adult site: ThingsYouCantAskMom.com, is definitely focused solely on advice and informative/educational toy reviews. There is not much room there for me to just shoot my mouth off about sex, porn or irreverent adult crap. And as much as I like to shoot my mouth off, I’d like to keep that site exactly that way. SO. Cleveros is doomed to become my dirty soap-box, as it were. Sort of an internet megaphone for my dirty mind. I need SOMEWHERE to vent… sometimes 140 characters just isn’t enough!

But first, a little site rebuild… busy weekend ahead, yes indeedy.